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Sunday March 12, 2006 FEATURE

Paramin golden couples

 
Francis and Thora Boisson

Francis Cholar and Bascelicia Thora Boisson were married on February 5, 1956 – more than four years after they had met while teaching at Paramin RC School. Praise God that they were able to celebrate their golden anniversary this year.

Their special day began with Holy Mass at the Church of Our Lady of Guadalupe, Paramin attended by their children, 16 grandchildren, two great-grandchildren and very close friends -- some of whom came from abroad especially for the occasion, including the chief celebrant, Fr Ronald Yee Mon, who flew in from Louisiana .

There's a saying that a house full of children is a house full of love, food and laughter. Francis and Thora had nine children (four boys and five girls). But even before having children of their own, they informally adopted their nephew within the first year of their marriage.

Fr Ronald Yee Mon and Francis and Thora Boisson
Fr Ronald Yee Mon and Francis and Thora Boisson

Francis provided for his family on a teacher's salary. He stayed in that noble profession for 42 years, the majority of which were spent at Paramin RC and then as principal of San Souci RC.

He was at Maraval Boys' RC when he retired in 1986, by which time his had become a household name in the Paramin/Maraval community.

Thora resigned from her job as a teacher and became a housewife and mother -- and a bit of an economist. She kept a kitchen garden, reared poultry and was a seamstress to friends and relatives. As her children grew older, she got involved in community work and is currently the public relations officer of the St Vincent de Paul Paramin Conference.

Francis and Thora, by their fine example, taught us (their children) how to economise and give generously to their community.

Our parents taught us to have faith and trust in the Lord. Even in times of despair they always kept their belief and often said, “the Lord knows best”. They had to endure the loss of two of their sons - Victor, as an infant in 1963, and Damian John, as an adult in 2001.

Exactly one month before their golden anniversary, they experienced another great loss, this time of their grandson Jamel, who they had raised like a son.

Not only did they renew their matrimonial vows at the Mass, they also received a Papal blessing from Pope Benedict XVI, which was read to them by the parish priest, Fr Alan Mohammed OP, and presented to them by Fr Ron Yee Mon.

They were also presented with gifts from the parish community, as well as with a beautiful commemorative plaque from the Society of St Vincent de Paul.

We ask God to continue to bless our parents, Francis and Thora, and wish them many more years together in good health and happiness.

Benito and Mary Rivas

Fifty years ago, Benito Rivas wrote a letter to Mary Constantine's grandparents asking for her hand in marriage. Mary was only 17 years old at the time and Benito was 24.

But Mary's parents knew of the love she and Benito had for each other and, as they also knew his family background, gave their consent with God's blessings.

Today, 50 years later, that letter has survived and so has the marriage of Benito and Mary, who produced nine children -- eight girls and one boy, the boy being the youngest.

Benito and Mary Rivas
Benito and Mary Rivas

On Sunday, December 18, 2005 , the family celebrated the couple's 50 th wedding anniversary.

The day began with a service at Our Lady of Guadalupe in Paramin, at which Fr Alan Mohammed officiated, anointed the couple and blessed their rings.

Later in the day, a reception was held at Winston Eugene's home where family, friends and well-wishers gathered to celebrate with Mom and Dad. A special service was then conducted by Mrs Wafe, during which they renewed their vows and exchanged rings.

The most striking thing about this couple is that they are always smiling, so you can never tell if something is bothering them.

Asked what had kept them together for all these years, Mummy replied, “Plenty prayers.” Daddy's response was: “The love we have for each other and seeing our nine children growing up.”

Every Sunday morning, religiously, one would see the whole Rivas family at Mass. Mummy believed in the saying that “a family that prays together stays together” – and that has proven to be true in our case. Mummy has always admitted that marriage is no bed of roses, but that one has to make it work. She has also repeatedly said that God has a plan for each of us, that we are all here for a purpose.

Daddy's and Mummy's advice to all is to put God first in everything that you do, to never give up on prayer, to realise that God is the only answer and to accept that he has a plan for you.

Best wishes Mom and Dad.

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