For some people today leadership is not primarily about service to others. They do not see one as identified with the other. But the two are indeed inseparable. Jesus demonstrates this on countless occasions in his interactions with his disciples and those around him, as at the washing of his disciples’ feet (John 13:12-16).

In today’s gospel, Mark continues his account of Jesus’ teaching on the call to lead and more specifically about what true leadership entails. Jesus presents a model of leadership that is essential for all who are called to assume roles of authority and positions of prominence—from that of the “big brother”, to captain of the local football team, to leaders in government, to every lay person.

Whenever I see someone occupying a leadership position, I often remind myself of the great sacrifice that was most likely made to reach that position: the long and sleepless nights of study, not to mention the many opportunities passed up to go liming with friends and family.

Why would some want to undergo all of that just to assume great responsibilities, responsibilities that can bring (it is true) monumental benefits but, on the other hand, that can cause great embarrassment or, worse yet, when badly handled that can bring about catastrophe?

How often do we question the huge salaries made by CEOs and others in managerial positions but do we ever consider the serious and important decisions they are called to make, which we would prefer not to have to make?

We too feel indignant with those we perceive as enjoying higher income and a higher standard of living. In spite of our own feelings of annoyance, it is important to remember that many men and women do respond to the call to be true servants of all.

I can think readily of my recently retired principal, who for over 25 years at Sacred Heart Boys’, and many more in the teaching service, gave of herself beyond the call of duty.

At times, forgoing her own wishes and preference to be at home with her family, she chose to stay long hours at work to ensure that every boy got home to the safety of his family—at times at her own expense and inconvenience.

She has made innumerable sacrifices in service to God and to his people, in particular the young boys of Sacred Heart Boys’ RC.

James and John, the sons of Zebedee, desired to occupy places of prominence. Even if these positions were his to give, Jesus knew that his disciples were not aware of the sacrifice they would be asked to make and the tremendous responsibility that came with it.

Leaders—willing or unwilling—are asked to make sacrifices. They are often asked to lead individuals and groups on a safe course. Credits and kudos are given when things go right. Similarly, leaders are expected to assume full responsibility when things go wrong—whether of their making or not. 

In whatever area of leadership one may be, the ability to see one’s role as that of service keeps one in touch with the kingdom values.  Making decisions and leading people involves understanding and perceiving their basic needs and wants. How can you serve the interest of the group when your own personal aspirations supersede those of the group?

A leader has to rise above his or her selfish desires and think of the good of all: a hard thing to accomplish, especially in today’s world.

Many though have overcome these obstacles, if only by the grace of God and, in the end, with mistakes here and there, a dose of wisdom, courage, fortitude and knowledge have led their charges, their family and friends along the straight and narrow road.

Dear Father God, we lift to you all our leaders, we ask your special anointing to be upon them, to lead, guide and fill them with love and wisdom. Lord, help us to recognise that we are called to be servants of each other. Amen.

Gospel Meditations for the month of October are by Richard Gomez a teacher at Sacred Heart Boys’ and a layminister of the Cathedral/Sacred Heart parish