DEAR EDITOR: In support of the article by K Blake – “Teenage Pregnancy all is not lost” (Sunday, May 29). I would like to advise girls about the option of adoption.
My husband and I are overjoyed with our adopted son. Every day we thank God for him, his biological mother and her family. We also pray that God would richly bless them for their courageous and selfless act.
In a situation where the raising of a child by a teenager could cause emotional problems for the family, maybe placing the child for adoption should be considered. There are many couples like my husband and myself, who have been unsuccessful with having children naturally, and would long to give love to a child they could adopt.
The Ministry responsible for Social Welfare and the Adoption Board do a good job in screening couples to ensure that the children are placed in safe and suitable homes. It took 22 months from the time we placed the application until our court appearance to complete the process.
This included the time we had to wait to be approved as suitable parents by the Board, the time waiting for a placement of a child (the list of hopeful parents far exceeds the list of available children), and the probation period after the child was placed (visits were made to our home to ensure that all was well with the child – about three visits in six months). My husband and I have no complaints about the process, and feel that all good things are worth the wait. We are currently awaiting the approval from the Board for a second child.
Charmaine, St James
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